mental health

 I know what you're thinking… GK, are you OK?   The answer is yes but this pandemic has given us circumstances way beyond our control and talking to a professional psychiatrist can be very very helpful.  Let me set this up by saying how against it I was to pay a stranger to listen to my story he or she knows nothing about. The first thing you need to understand is it's not about that person listening it's about your story and the results you need for guidance into your future.  This pandemic is new for everyone but talking to a doctor trained in the field of human psyche can sometimes be a turning point in your life. I have a wonderful family who listens to everything I talk about but that does not mean they have the ability to have an unbiased opinion on my situation at hand.  I do have a psychiatrist I talked to Mainly because my life is so intense and highly evolved that I need someone outside of my circle to make better decisions for my present judgment in my life.  
Like all doctors they listen they advise and we go over the results at a later date.   

Let me firstLet me first say that mental Health has always been a no-no to talk about. It's like the big C word of cancer.  When an athlete evolves to the majors he doesn't keep being trained by his high school coach. Think about your parents and your in-laws and your friends and your high school coach and now you're ready for professional training for this thing called life.

If you feel so overwhelmed that your friends or parent in-laws cannot help you maybe it's time to make a phone call to see which professional can. I did not grow up with this topic being normal in conversation but it is absolutely time that it is. I am a father of three, I am a husband, I am a friend and I enjoy being a mentor to kiddos who need guidance I've already cleared the path they are trying to walk.  This life isn't easy.  It's not meant to be.  You are here on this Earth because you deserve to be here.  Don't "F" it up!  Learn how to grow as a person and mentor for those who need the assistance and you'll only then see the true gratitude you deserve.  Notice I said deserve...NOT OWED. 

Nobody at any money status DESERVES ANYTHING...you must work in order to DESERVE the grace.   This COVID-19 virus is invisible to the human eye yet it brings all parts of reality into focus and reminds us who is really in charge!

special note*** it's not YOU!

What you do in this life for others is how you are judged...not the things you have done or yourself! 
Life is easier than we think.  We humans makes everything more difficult for everything including the basics.  Stop making them confusing and listen to your heart because it's telling you to listen to others, hear them, make judgements according to humanity not just results that benefit YOU.

If this seams easy...welcome to Focused with GK...if you think this idea is ridiculous - you should go back to planet that you belong to because EARTH is AWESOME and apparently you do not qualify.

-Stay Focused on Your Dreams- GK